Tuesday, September 03, 2013

I Quit My Day Job

When I was 27 or so and naive, I posted something to a writing listserv that stated I didn't want to become a millionaire. I just wanted to make enough money writing to quit my day job. My comment received a personal e-mail from a writer who informed me, "Most writers will never be able to quit their day jobs. Sorry."

This post is dedicated to that writer.

It took me 20 years and a lot of wrong turns, but last week I turned in my two-weeks' notice. In the days that followed, I tried to explain to a large number of people, one at a time, exactly where I was going.

"I'm going home," I would tell them. "To write."

This brought a puzzled, frowny response. To write? What does that even mean? I then started handing out my business card, which has a picture of my book, but I'm not really leaving my day job because I sold my first novel to Simon & Schuster. I wish writing paid so much that one book allowed for the dismissal of a day job.

Oh. Maybe that was what that writer meant when I was 27 and naive!

You see, there's this thing called Elance. In 2011, I discovered it and my life changed forever. If you write...if you design...if you program--if you do any number of things quickly AND well, Elance is your friend. Elance, I'm pretty sure, will allow you to eventually quit your day job.

You know you want to click and see.

Anyway, I can't say it's something anyone can do. But I can say that starting September 16, I will wake up, boot up my laptop, and write. It's what I've been doing to the tune of thousands of bucks since 2011...and it's something I'm going to do until my fingers fall off, I guess. I can't say it's only Elance...it's Elance and a few dozen connections I've made through jobs I've landed through Elance. It all comes together somehow. And hopefully now that I am doing it full-time, I can spend my fun time writing fiction.

I am a writer. And I'm proof that writers CAN quit their day jobs.


  1. Congratulations! I know you've been working towards this for years because I've been reading you a LONG time. Well done. Hard work pays off.

  2. It is so inspiring to follow your journey. As a fellow MySpace blogger, I cannot wait to hear of your continued progress. You are so very talented, and beyond that, a very good person.

    Thank goodness for leading the path that one can make a career of writing.



  3. Good for you!!!!:-) Congratulations!

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  5. Way to go!!!! I will be buying your first book!

  6. Congratulations and I see you are blogging again =)

  7. That's awesome, I'm happy for you!!

  8. Congratulations! You are living the dream!

  9. Hi Stephanie, Found your blog via a comment on Nathan Bransford blog. Congratulations! And your book's title sounds great - any cover art or blurb you can give about it? Also, do you have a contact? I really would love to explore freelance writing but am newish to writing world...yet want to do more and more..somehow. Would love to email you (also I live in Canada ,) . Let me know anyway. Thks. And congrats again. Hard work and effort earned you this.


  10. Thank you, Jill! My book cover and blurb are on stephaniefaris.com (click on "Books.") You can e-mail me through there. My website is kind of new, so there isn't much there yet, but I hope that will change very soon!

  11. Stephanie congrats to you and watching you and reading you for years . I am so happy for you. You are a great inspiration.

  12. Wow! Quitting a day job is a dream I've had too. With a 8-5 job and tons of duties on the weekend, I hardly find time to write any more besides early in the morning or sneaking some time in on the weekend.
    This is exactly what I want to do.
    (Now you are supposed to tell me it's not a reality so I can prove you wrong). ;)